How many of you have seen the Fifty Shades of Grey films? Put your hands up (we won’t be handcuffing you, just to be clear), but only to view the fan base. I’m also raising my hand because I like Christian Grey. Yes, there are many BDSM layers in the film, and perhaps some of them are incorrect, but I also look for my partner to share the same inner turmoil, misery, pain, and love that Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele experience. And of course, the sexual component (wink)! However, the reason we are asking this question is because submission s*x is our topic for today.
Well, as long as it doesn’t hurt so much that you can’t handle it, I don’t see anything wrong with it. And what’s wrong if our favourite Hollywood singer Rihanna may also admit to being submissive? Scroll down to continue reading!
A boss babe, RiRi. She is a mother, a singer, and an entrepreneur. When it comes to her business, she must make all the crucial choices, yet the Barbadian singer prefers to be subservient in bed.
Rihanna famously claimed, “I like to take command, but I love to be submissive,” in an interview with Rolling Stone. She went on to say, “you get to be a tiny girl, to have somebody be masculine and in command of your shit,” in additional explanation. Rihanna continued by saying that it’s about having a vacation from being the one in charge and the one who makes all the decisions. When it comes to intimacy, I like to feel like someone’s girl since I work a lot and have to make a lot of executive choices.
In the BDSM, the letter S stands for submission, and to be honest, many women (including myself) fantasise of having sex in bed with our partners and having them take control of the act and dominate us. Don’t believe me? According to a research published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 65% of women enjoy engaging in submissive sex with their partners, according to a story in Cosmopolitan.
There are various facets to submissive sex, and you can add spice to your sex life without being wounded. Are you ready to learn more about it, ladies? First off, you shouldn’t need an excuse or justification to be submissive to your spouse in bed; you can just be there because it’s hot!
Both parties must have a great deal of trust in order for submissive sex to take place because it can become quite intense and cause the sub to injure herself. More than just having faith in your spouse, ladies, you must have faith in your ability to enjoy and enjoy yourself despite the difficulties. Have a plan in place to escape the circumstance! However, CONSENT is crucial in all of this. You must be prepared to give in to your dom, but if you do, it can be enjoyable (did Anastasia Steele enjoy it as well?)
Here are several less dangerous and more enjoyable submissive sex positions:
Spanking (a little spanking when your spouse is pushing on you won’t hurt). Give in (if your partner or Dom ties your hand up or holds it still while you’re lying down, it gives you a lot of room to experiment with penetration and oral!)
Power Grab, Arm Lock, and other positions are available for you and your partner to explore in order to liven up your typical, bland sex life. Although it might not always result in satisfying sex, you will undoubtedly have an encounter that will allow your fantasies to come true. Additionally, when you give in to your dreams in bed, your hormones will be instantly stimulated, improving your sex life with your spouse.
Why constantly choose the standard sex positions when there are so many more possibilities to explore? What do you, ladies, think about it? Would you not indulge in bedtime dreams like Anastasia Steele? wink!
